Frequently Asked Questions
Guidance and Answers to Help You Make Confident, Meaningful Decisions
What is a memorial headstone?
A memorial headstone is a durable, inscribed marker, often made of stone like granite, placed at a grave to identify the deceased, commemorate their life, and provide a permanent tribute, featuring details like names, dates, religious symbols, or personal messages, serving both practical (marking graves) and sentimental purposes (honoring memory).
What is the difference between a headstone, monument, and grave marker?
A headstone is an upright memorial, typically made of granite or bronze, that displays a person’s name, dates, and sometimes an epitaph or design. A monument is a larger, more customized memorial—often sculpted or highly detailed—that tells a deeper story of a loved one’s life through imagery, design, and inscription. A grave marker is usually a flat or low-profile stone or bronze plaque placed at ground level, offering a simpler and more cost-effective way to identify a grave.
At Nelson Memorials, our memorial specialists help you understand these options and choose the tribute that best honors your loved one.
What materials are headstones, monuments and markers made from?
Most memorials are made from granite, marble, or bronze. Granite is the most popular choice because it is extremely durable, long-lasting, and available in a wide range of colors. Marble offers a classic, elegant appearance but is more prone to weathering over time. Bronze is commonly used for plaques mounted on granite bases and provides a distinctive look with relatively easy maintenance.
Other materials such as limestone, sandstone, and slate are used less often today due to their lower durability in outdoor settings.
How much does a headstone or monument cost?
Prices vary depending on the size, material, design complexity, and additional features. It is best to reach out to one of our professionals to get a quote based off your specifications.
What personalization options are available?
Most memorials can be fully customized to reflect the personality, faith, and legacy of your loved one. Customization options may include names, dates, and inscriptions; religious or cultural symbols; etched or laser-engraved portraits; and unique artwork or design elements. Additional features such as vases, statues, or photo frames can also be incorporated. Many families choose meaningful quotes, Bible verses, or poems that capture the spirit and life of the person being remembered.
How long does it take to create and install a headstone?
The process can take anywhere from 8 to 22 weeks, depending on the complexity of the design, material availability, and cemetery regulations.
Custom monuments may take longer, especially if unique materials or designs are requested.
Weather conditions and cemetery scheduling may also affect the timeline.
What are cemetery regulations, and why do they matter?
Cemeteries often have specific regulations regarding the size, material, design, and placement of memorials to preserve the appearance and safety of the grounds. Before selecting or designing a headstone or monument, it’s important to review the cemetery’s individual guidelines.
Nelson Memorials can help you navigate these requirements and ensure your memorial fully complies with all cemetery regulations.
What is a companion headstone?
A companion headstone is designed to memorialize two individuals—most often spouses or close family members—and is placed over two burial plots. It provides a unified and meaningful way to honor a shared life, relationship, and lasting legacy.
What is pre-need planning, and should I consider it?
Pre-need planning allows you to select and purchase a headstone or monument in advance, before it is needed. This thoughtful approach helps reduce stress for family members during an emotional time, allows you to lock in current pricing, and ensures your personal wishes are clearly documented and honored. Many families choose pre-need planning as part of their overall estate or funeral planning process.
At Nelson Memorials, our team is here to guide you through this process with care and clarity. Learn more or start the conversation by visiting our Contact Page.
What is included in the cost of a headstone?
Typically, the cost of a memorial includes:
Additional costs may apply for optional features or services, including:
At Nelson Memorials, we clearly explain all options so you can make informed decisions with confidence.
Can headstones be repaired or restored?
Yes. Professional memorial services can:
Clean and polish worn or weathered surfaces
Re-level stones that have shifted or settled over time
Re-engrave inscriptions that have faded
Repair or replace damaged elements such as vases or plaques
Routine maintenance helps preserve both the appearance and structural integrity of a memorial for years to come.
What happens if our headstone is damaged?
Depending on the cause, some repairs may be covered under an existing warranty, if one is available. Damage caused by weather, accidents, or vandalism can often be corrected through professional restoration. It’s also wise to check whether the cemetery or memorial manufacturer offers any protection or warranty plans for added peace of mind.
Can I include photos or QR codes on a headstone?
Absolutely. Porcelain or ceramic photo inserts are a meaningful way to visually honor your loved one. QR codes can also be added to link to memorial websites, videos, or written biographies, creating a modern and interactive way to share and preserve their story.
How do I start the process of choosing a headstone?
At Nelson Memorials, we provide compassionate guidance and personalized support throughout each step of the process.